Ex-Country Star Chely Wright on What’s Changed for Gay People in the 15 Years Since She Came Out, and Why She’s Made the Surprising Leap From Artist to Corporate VP
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Ex-Country Star Chely Wright on What’s Changed for Gay People in the 15 Years Since She Came Out, and Why She’s Made the Surprising Leap From Artist to Corporate VP

When Chely Wright got here out of the closet in 2010, revealing to Nashville and to hundreds of thousands of nation followers that she was homosexual, that emergence put her in a place to turn out to be a spokesperson and activist on behalf of the LGBTQ group, as somebody center America had recognized, trusted and sung together with. Now, in 2025, she’s doing a unique sort of popping out — as a company individual, who’s at the very least quickly setting apart music, and the platform that comes with it, to take a senior govt gig with ISS, an organization that has 320,000 staff round the world.

Does that make her a sellout? Removed from it, in case you dig down to what Wright has already been ready to accomplish in six months on the job as ISS’ Senior VP of Corporate Social Duty (CSR) and New Market Progress for North America. The previous nation star is bringing the identical sensitivity and ethics she had as a recording artist and public function mannequin to her duties in the personal sector, wanting to construct on what she says the 125-year previous company was already doing in the areas of (dare we are saying it?) range, fairness and inclusion, which she maintains is significant as a nationwide and worldwide enterprise mannequin, and not simply good for goodness’ sake (although there’s that, too).

As Satisfaction Month wraps up, Selection presents a dialog with Wright that touches on her expertise popping out and whether or not she thinks the world has gotten higher or worse for queer folks in the interim. As for the moderately extreme profession change she’s been by way of since popping out, she sees all of it on a continuum, as somebody who beloved the enterprise a part of the music biz, even when she didn’t have to be targeted on it. — and as somebody who holds a perception that there’s an artwork to the collaborations that occur in assembly rooms, too. We additionally mentioned the stage musical that’s in the works primarily based on her life story, with Jean Good set to produce. However for now, the focus is on what Wright — as soon as one in all People journal’s “Most Stunning People in the World,” in her country-star days — is doing to beautify issues from the boardroom.

First, let’s simply straight-out ask: Are you finished being an artist? Have you ever flipped the swap from one factor to one other, and now you’re a company individual, indefinitely?

That’s a good query. I’d be stunned if that had been the case. I’m nonetheless on daily basis jotting down traces and buzzing into my voice memo melodies. And I’m truly working on writing some new music for a musical. Jean Good acquired the life rights of my guide (“Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Nation Singer”), and we’re working on a musical, which is fairly cool. It’s simply cool to even know Jean Good, frankly. In order that venture is actually enjoyable to be working on. And I additionally consider in my bones I’m gonna make one other album, if not a number of. I don’t assume that might ever not be a part of who I’m.

However for now, with this, I’m very a lot in a full-time function, flying throughout the world, getting to do good issues and use the skillsets that I constructed throughout my music profession: management, storytelling, listening and execution. I believe generally folks don’t notice all that an artist has to do. Not all of them like it, however I beloved the enterprise facet of the music enterprise as a lot as I really like the music. And this skillset is so transferrable, it’s not even a stretch. I get to deliver all of the skillsets round folks relationships, saying, “Hey guys, there’s that mountain. Let’s go climb it.” In the previous, that may have appeared like, “Hey, let’s get our gear and go to Japan and do a tour” or “Let’s go into Iraq and do a USO tour.” It’s oddly comparable to being an artist. Which will sound bizarre, however I imply it.

With the avenues of constructing it in the music enterprise turning into extra sophisticated yearly, the concept of merely focusing on the music and saying “I’m gonna go away the remainder of it to my crew” is just not an choice very many individuals have anymore.

Yeah, and I believe I at all times knew that. In truth, there have been many occasions all through the course of my profession, actually after I was extra fashionable than not, that my enterprise supervisor or folks at the label would say, “Hey, we’ve acquired this new artist that’s popping out; will you speak to them about how to take into consideration their enterprise?” Whereas it perhaps would have been extra flattering had they mentioned “Will you train this individual how to write a tune?” or “Will you give this individual voice classes?,” nobody ever requested me to do this. I’ve had two nicknames in my lifetime, from those that love me: “Captain Security” and “Triple Checker.” These two behaviors and personas are actually useful as a music artist who’s touring, whenever you’ve gotta take into consideration what may go flawed, and then you definately’ve gotta triple-check your crew and triple-check your self. I do this in enterprise, and it serves me simply in addition to it did after I was an artist.

ISS is actually a world-famous firm, however not all of us are too conscious of it. What is that this firm you’ve gone to work for, in a nutshell?

It’s a 125-year-old firm that gives services administration and service traces that primarily deliver buildings to life, from vertical transportation — that’s escalators, elevators, technical providers round that — to HVAC, plumbing, electrical, janitorial and hospitality… Once you go right into a constructing, folks don’t usually discover the issues which are taking place, until there’s one thing flawed. So we’ve got 320,000 placemakers round the globe who go to work on daily basis and do that actually honorable work of constructing positive that nobody notices all these high-functioning issues. … As well as to these service traces, we additionally do the finest company eating. Now we have unbelievable govt cooks, and we focus on sustainability; plant-forward meals are an enormous dialog — native sourcing, working with native farmers and native companies. So we do all the pieces that you just may not discover whenever you go right into a constructing and have a fantastic day in that constructing. And our meals division is Guggenheimer.

You had one company gig prior to this, spending 4 years at Unispace, as their chief range and inclusion officer. Your duties sound presumably expanded now that you just’re at ISS. What you might be doing in a mean day or week there?

My function is head of company social duty (CSR) and new market progress. And the new market progress piece is fairly thrilling, in that I’m working on a few joint ventures that deliver another varieties of folks into the ecosystem of the constructed setting. It’s no massive shock that the constructed setting — business actual property — has been, traditionally, sort of a person’s world. Certainly one of the cool issues I really like about ISS is we’ve acquired a number of girls in the enterprise. We’re a extremely various crew, with a number of totally different sorts of communities of individuals. However I’m targeted on bringing into the JV (three way partnership) panorama some women-owned companies and some diverse-owned companies, for actual enterprise options. We’re not speaking about simply hiring a small vendor to do flowers at an occasion that occurs to be a woman-owned enterprise; we’re speaking a few vital cog in the wheel of enterprise.

The pinnacle of CSR is having the alternative to see what we’re doing in every market with every consumer, and discover out collectively what we care about and what sorts of impacts we would like to make, and turbo-boosting that. It’s core to who we’re. Once you research the historical past of ISS and how we got here to be you, you’ll be taught that the HR perform that everyone knows and love began with our firm. 100 years in the past, our firm was the first that had a lady as the head of a enterprise unit. So this has been a part of what we do for a very long time, however we wanted somebody in right here to turbo-boost it. With my background in 501C(3)s and advocacy, it’s the good job for me proper now, as a result of it’s storytelling, consumer relationships, radical listening and group impression. So, who’s luckier than me? No one.

The initiatives you’re speaking about have traditionally been one thing to brag about. However in a local weather the place, to a part of the inhabitants, “DEI” has turn out to be a grimy phrase that it looks like some firms are attempting to work out how to maintain their diversifying efforts below wraps, if something. Can an organization brag anymore about all the great issues it’s doing with out being focused as woke?  

It could be disingenuous to say that persons are not behind closed doorways at each group round the globe having conversations like: How will we proceed to maintain true to our values, and talk to our purchasers and the communities that we maintain these true, whereas not additionally reaching the ire of the administration. And it’s difficult. Many noticed it coming. It’s straightforward to marginalize the queer inhabitants or Black and brown folks. However whenever you put names and faces to it, it’s harder. It’s like after I, Chely, raised my hand and informed the world 15 years in the past: It’s not simply this bucket of individuals, it’s me — the individual that you just’ve come to her reveals and you’ve stood in the autograph line. At this second in time, I see a parallel monitor… People have distilled it down and repackaged DEI as giving folks jobs who don’t deserve jobs, or giving somebody a promotion who doesn’t deserve it. It’s not that, and by the method, it’s by no means been that. It’s by no means been about something however being merit-based, and actually sort of eradicating obstacles for some who don’t have an unfair benefit. And so I like to encourage folks to say the phrases “range, fairness, and inclusion.”

That’s one factor. However then additionally, in figuring out the good that we do as a enterprise, we’ve been doing it since method earlier than anybody was speaking about being woke or culturally appropriate or politically appropriate or DEI or no matter that is perhaps. It’s about ensuring that our various groups — 320,000 folks round the globe that come to work —know that they matter, that we couldn’t do that work with out them. And we are various; it’s not one thing we’ve got to set out to do. And we have to be inclusive, or our service traces can’t work collectively.

I don’t need to say it is a blip in time, as a result of this (antagonism) could be very actual for a number of populations, mine included, being a lady and being a queer individual. However I do assume that the tenets of DEI in tradition, of belonging and inclusion, are outlasting this marketing campaign to marginalize DEI. I don’t need to say that is gonna go away rapidly. Cornell and Columbia are dropping funding, and a number of organizations, like the Division of Training right here in New York state, are having to take a stance and say, “Look, we’re not gonna kowtow; we’re not going to disband and eradicate all of our teachings round tradition and inclusion,” as they properly shouldn’t. However do I believe this too will move? I do. I do.

Chely Wright attends the “Invisible” premiere throughout NewFest 2021 at the SVA Theater on October 22, 2021 in New York Metropolis.
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We’ve acquired purchasers who’re asking us, like, “What are you doing internally together with your ISS Guggenheimer groups? Are you taking your foot off the gasoline of inclusion and belonging?” Our reply isn’t any. And I see our purchasers’ faces, and they’re relieved and they’re grateful. Once you take a look at our portfolio of purchasers, it actually issues to them. And I really like that our head of DEI at ISS is a straight white man who was in the Air Pressure for 27 years. I really like that about our firm. And nothing’s modified over right here. We’re nonetheless targeted on ensuring that we deliver to life the values upon which this unbelievable 125-year-old firm was based, and not taking our eye off the ball, however we would like to be certain that we defend the enterprise as properly.

You’re well-known for being a do-gooder. In your new function at ISS, you will have already gotten to do some very constructive issues. You had been integral in placing collectively a profit dinner at Pasadena’s Artwork Middle in April that helped out a few of the touchstone eating places in Altadena that had been devastated by the January fires. What did that entail?

In January, as a result of we’ve got a number of purchasers on the west coast that we do FM (facility administration) for — all the pieces from company eating to janitorial — we mobilized an effort to feed frontline staff, doing issues like making hundreds of breakfast burritos… After issues appeared to stabilize at the finish of that week, we requested ourselves three questions: Did we do sufficient? Our reply was no. Might we do extra? Sure. And the third was, if we may do extra, what would that seem like? On day two or three of the fires, I had reached out to President (Karen) Hofman at Artwork Middle. I’d recognized her for fairly some time and simply mentioned, “How are you? … If we may be of any assist, Guggenheimer is our meals division. We are able to feed folks. Inform us the place we, how we can assist.”… Our crew huddled and mentioned, what can we do, hyper-locally? If there’s an issue in a group that’s suffered as Altadena and Pasadena did, let’s get in there and deliver all that we’ve got to bear.

So we agreed, with Karen, that we had been gonna do that occasion there and cook dinner for it. In planning the occasion, we did a deep dive into Altadena and Pasadena and how there are some native eating places that had been iconic enclaves of civil rights and inclusion, and women-owned companies, that we thought we may assist. We reached out to two of the eating places, Amara Kitchen and the Little Crimson Hen, to embrace them in this occasion we had been doing with (movie star chef) Amanda Freitag. And we got here to the desk with some grant funding and a partnership that lasts extra than simply the evening. So clearly we are able to procure issues {that a} small restaurant can’t, whether or not or not it’s cooking gear or small wares or no matter they’re going to want. … It was a strong, emotional night. After which to watch Amanda deliver Ms. (Barbara) Shea from the Little Crimson Hen and Paola Guasp from Amara Kitchen to up on stage and even do a mashup of two of the dishes… Watching these two beloved recipes turn out to be one was a terrific emotional metaphor for the evening. After which Ikea, our companion, acquired up at the finish of the evening and stunned the eating places with: “Once you’re prepared to rebuild, you don’t have to fear about furnishing your eating places. We’ve acquired you.” They usually’re additionally going to work on the design and the area planning with the Artwork Middle for these eating places. So it was a win-win-win-win.

ISS Senior Vice President of CSR and New Market Progress Chely Wright and chef Amanda Freitag at an occasion in June 2025
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Let’s speak some extra about your profession shift. Actually lots of people in music have a detour into a unique subject thrust upon them, as a result of there isn’t a avenue for them to transfer ahead and generate income. And generally it’s folks simply actually wanting to have a second or third act, moderately than persevering with to be the opening act or slugging it out on membership excursions the remainder of their lives, even when they nonetheless have some viability there. So some musicians could look towards somebody such as you for inspiration. Was this one thing that had been percolating for you a very long time, in phrases of pondering you didn’t simply have to keep on the identical course ceaselessly?

It’s a fantastic query. We each know simply getting a report deal doesn’t even imply your report will ever come out, and then having a report come out and then having successful, the odds of getting struck by lightning are in all probability greater. So for these of us who’ve been that fortunate… I believe I started seeing profession longevity by way of a unique lens before anybody else equally located as a result of I used to be a closeted homosexual individual, and I knew that at any second that my profession may very well be gone like that if I had been discovered. So I did spend a great deal of my time holding on actually tightly to that id and hiding. You spend a number of your vitality whenever you’re in the closet staying in the closet. I did take into consideration what would I do if this profession had been taken from me.

However by no means in my wildest desires did I ever think about I might be taking a practice from the higher east facet to an workplace on Madison Avenue, like I did in my earlier job. Which is like being in a film, by the method — in case you’re going to work and you undergo Grand Central, it’s like, whoa, I’m in a film! However I might by no means have imagined it, largely as a result of I by no means noticed anybody do it.

With my early understanding that my profession may very well be taken from me in a second’s discover, that’s why I began shopping for rental homes in Nashville in the late ‘90s; that, for a very long time, was my facet hustle. I nonetheless have these homes and I nonetheless handle them myself. I nonetheless undergo the purposes, and I flip over a home myself — get in there, repaint it, change the rest room, all of that. I can’t inform you what number of occasions I used to be portray a rental home, ran residence, acquired a bathe, and went out and did the Grand Ole Opry. I beloved it, however I additionally assume I used to be doing it out of survival, and “I’ve to be certain that I’m OK in case the profession is taken.”

And the way did your pondering begin to change, if it did, whenever you got here out?

Once I got here out of the closet in 2010, I used to be very measured and very strategic in how I got here out. I took a number of flack for that, by the method, however I wouldn’t change a single factor about the technique and pondering “Hhow do I do that and how do I do it properly and how do I management it?” That was enterprise pondering. And so after I did that, I believed that will be a three-to-six-month factor, and my profession was gonna change slightly bit, however I’ll simply return to touring, and it’d look smaller or totally different. What I didn’t see coming was, that’s after I started having alternatives to do tradition work, belonging, DEIB work with firms and greater ed and religion communities — and that’s the place that new facet hustle started.

I truly had extra of that work than I wished to do. I sort of stored it at 30% of my work, and the relaxation was music. There’s no purpose I couldn’t have gone 70/30 (in favor of the tradition work), however I used to be nonetheless holding on so tightly to who I believed I used to be and who I believed I must be. I used to be having an id disaster, as a result of if I’m not 70% a touring musician, who am I? You understand, I didn’t need to really feel like something was taken from me. So that chance grew to become extra and extra actual to me, and viable, and enjoyable and gratifying, and actually profitable. After which after I was on tour, when COVID hit, all of that (music efficiency) went away — and the subsequent week my purchasers had been calling for digital occasions. I took on new purchasers, in order that went from 30% to 100%. It was there all alongside, however I didn’t wanna hear it. I didn’t know what that mentioned about me as an artist.

In the end, although, you didn’t have a lot ego tied up in the rewards of being onstage that you just weren’t ready to step away from it. Some performers wouldn’t give you the option to give that up or set it apart.

You understand, ego is commonly seen as a pejorative, however it’s not. It’s how we see ourselves, and how we predict the world sees us. Once I got here out, I didn’t need to really feel like I used to be having something taken from me. It was my selection if I would like to shapeshift and change my profession path or write a brand new chapter, however, it’s like, I’ll be damned if the world or the trade goes to take one thing from me that I earned. And yeah, it’s actually arduous. You understand, from like age 4, I used to be telling everybody in my hometown, “I’m gonna be a rustic music star.” After which, 35 years later, going on the “At this time” present and realizing, I’m gonna give a few of that again — like, give a chunk of that fan base and that sweat fairness again.

And I additionally knew one thing about myself as a performer that’s totally different from another performers. Lots of them are my pricey buddies qwho actually struggled throughout COVID, not due to the ambiguity of what was taking place and due to the world pandemic in which the world modified, however the visceral bodily want to carry out… to have that dialog with an viewers 5 nights every week. I used to be fortunate in that, for me, I believe my being a performer was to facilitate having the ability to write and make data and join with those who method. So I didn’t miss performing a single evening. I don’t know what that claims about me. I do love each second of performing, however I didn’t really feel like I misplaced something throughout COVID, in these first few weeks when my tour acquired canceled. Perhaps I didn’t really feel that sort of deficit as a result of I knew I had different issues I may do and had been doing different issues for 10 years at that time.

You understand, I’ve finished just a few reveals in the previous few years. It feels nice. There’s actually nothing like standing on stage and singing songs to 600 folks or 60 or 6,000 that know your songs and need to hear your tales. But it surely’s not one thing I miss after I’m not doing it. I’ll inform you what I do miss. I miss sitting down with a cup of espresso and a guitar at 8:30 in the morning and then a brand new tune current by 3:30. I miss what it appears like to go right into a studio and sort of work by way of, “How are we gonna report this factor? What are the instruments in the toolkit right here?” I miss that collaboration with folks.

However then, I get an amazing quantity of collaboration on daily basis, all day lengthy. I begin my conferences vivid and early and we finish in the night and I get to interact and collaborate with a number of totally different sorts of groups round the globe. And that sort of offers me that very same sort of buzz.

What’s it about that collaboration, in the studio or now in the world of enterprise, that innately appeals to you?

Having grown up on a farm in Kansas, with not sufficient sources and actually pragmatic mother and father, their mantra to us youngsters was, “Plan your work and work your plan.” And fixing issues with others, is there something extra enjoyable than that? I really like determining, OK, what are we fixing for? What are the expertise and the instruments and the sources we’ve got, and how will we patch this factor collectively and obtain the end result we would like? So whether or not it’s throwing hay, placing up fence, digging a cistern… or placing in lateral traces for plumbing or portray a rental home, all of it sort of feels the identical to me as: You reverse-engineer into the end result that you really want, and that requires problem-solving and collaboration.

Talking of issues to resolve…  you probably did an interview just lately the place you mentioned that whenever you got here out in 2010, you figured half your viewers was OK with that, at that time… and in case you’d finished it earlier, it might’ve been 25%. In the event you had been revealing that now, do you assume it might be much more than half, or about the identical? And is it a aid not to have to take into consideration that, on a unique profession path?

Nicely, let me again up to what I used to be fixing for after I got here out. I can inform you what I wasn’t fixing for, in popping out and telling my story: Getting individuals who didn’t like the concept of a rustic music singer being homosexual to be OK with being homosexual. I knew very clearly I wasn’t fixing for that. The end result that I used to be going for was telling the world who I used to be, all the items of me — this individual of religion who toured in help of the troops and was from the Midwest who loves the Grand Ole Opry and loves nation music and loves Connie Smith and Loretta Lynn and additionally occurred to be homosexual. Past that, I had to let go of individuals liking me. The objective, as a rustic music, is to guarantee that as many followers such as you and like what you’re doing as doable. And wanting everybody at the finish of this to be so delighted with me was a tough factor to throw out of the basket. However as soon as I did, all the pieces acquired straightforward. Perhaps that’s straightforward to say as a result of I’ll be 55 this yr… For the 23-year-old me that began placing out data in Nashville, that felt so necessary to me then.

Singer Tim McGraw and singer Chely Wright attend the thirty first Annual Academy of Nation Music Awards Nominations Annoucement on February 26, 1996 in Common Metropolis, California.
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How you’re feeling about the openness of nation music now, with time and distance from it? You will have to keep an curiosity when any individual like a TJ Osborne comes out. I say “any individual like…” as if there are extra examples, however there aren’t rather a lot. Nonetheless, you carved a path that that makes it simpler for these examples we do have.

Yeah. And TJ particularly, he and I’ve had some actually good conversations and, gosh, I maintain him in such excessive regard, together with others in the trade who’ve raised their hand and mentioned, “Hey, that is who I’m.” It’s totally different each time, from the first time somebody goes down a highway and paves new floor or leaves tire marks for somebody behind them to comply with. I really feel actually fortunate and grateful and honored to have finished what I did after I did it, and I hear so steadily from different folks in the trade and new or rising artists that my story and my popping out gave them slightly little bit of consolation and perception and perhaps group. Of all the issues I’ve finished in my life, popping out, not simply after I did however how I did, I believe it’s the factor of which I’m most proud.

And in the trade, it’s simpler to be who you at the moment are than it was 10 years in the past or 15 years in the past. But it surely’s additionally a extremely precarious time. I believe that the world has taken some steps backward, and I don’t take that calmly. You understand, in case you’re a present artist with data out, it might have felt like we had been doing actually nice 10 years in the past or three years in the past, however now they may really feel like we’re again in the ‘60s. Now, in phrases of how arduous it’s… I can say what Mary Gauthier mentioned about me. She mentioned, “Nicely, the first mouse seldom will get the cheese.” And I believe there’s some fact to that, however I additionally say, “Nicely, it relies upon on what the cheese is.” I simply really feel grateful that I had the crew round me that I did — my supervisor, my label, my publicist, my writer. And each time I see somebody come out in nation music or in the trade, I really feel like that I acquired to be a tiny drop in this big wave of change. It’s fairly cool to see, and folks will ping me and say, “Did you see so and so got here out?” Each time I do, I can’t assist however smile and simply know I acquired to be a pebble on that highway.

We’re in a time the place, at the very least in types of music apart from nation, popping out appears virtually commonplace — at the identical time that prejudice has been normalized much more than it was just a few years in the past.

Yeah, it’s arduous to measure. It may very well be tempting for me to say, “Nicely, I got here out 15 years in the past, so it’s a complete lot simpler now.” No, there are too many variables. The star energy is totally different. Their trajectory in the lifecycle of their profession is totally different. And in the world, the temperature has modified. I believe that with the enablement of the worst angels amongst us, the worst behaviors, it’s like the coral gate has been opened and folks simply really feel it’s OK to say some issues that they in all probability wouldn’t have mentioned out loud 15 years in the past after I got here out. Now, after I got here out, I acquired dying threats. I acquired terrible tweets and Fb messages and I had any individual come to New York (who) mentioned they had been gonna do no matter they had been gonna do to me. However despite the fact that I acquired that stuff, I simply really feel like the world has gotten this license to be imply. And if I’m an artist proper now on a significant label or an indie label, and I’m (targeted on being) on the radio, I simply don’t know that it’s simpler now. We’re headed in the proper course, however I might not need to be that business artist proper now. I really feel for them, you recognize, I actually really feel for them.

Singer Chely Wright attends the Household Equality Council’s 2015 Night time At The Pier at Pier 60 on Might 11, 2015 in New York Metropolis.
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Shifting up to the current and future, we’ve got to ask about the biographical musical.

Nicely, primary, being in the presence of Jean Good is sort of a religious expertise. We’re working with Irene Sanko, who wrote “Come From Away,” and working with my pal, (veteran Nashville songwriter) Wayne Kirkpatrick, on some music, so the crew is constructing and it’s thrilling. It’s simply loopy to assume that, in some unspecified time in the future, knock on wooden, my story might be on a stage.

Might it have a ultimate scene with you in a company suite, working on benevolent issues?

You understand what, I considered that. Like, what’s the ending of this factor? I imply, greater than doubtless it might (be when) I did return to the Grand Ole Opry in 2019, after not enjoying the Opry for a very long time. That undoubtedly appears like an enormous, fancy ending. However wouldn’t or not it’s one thing if the ending had been me in a company workplace? I don’t know the way thrilling and sort of stage-worthy that will be, however it appears like an enormous stage-worthy ending to me, or at the very least a chapter. This doesn’t really feel like my ending, however it appears like a rattling cool chapter.